Woman Friends

I choose to think of friend as a very strong word, I must admit. I learned that a friend is someone I trust to be with me when I am at my weakest and most vulnerable. And they are people who, no matter how painful it is to see, are willing to be with me when I am so helpless and weak. Friendship is not a state of mind, it’s an act. It’s something you do.

When two women, an unmarried and married one become friends, they can be the best shopping mates, they can talk about fashions, hobbies, gossips.. but it is hard to touch on family matters. The problems they faced are not the same, one would complain on hubby, in laws, kids, kitchen, another would be bored to death on those issues.

While when 2 unmarried women are friends, they can giggle like nobody business over unconnected things, but when one of them is aimed at getting married and starts hunting for a man, it can put up a blocks in the relationship almost immediately.

I must confess that I dont have much faith in woman's relationship, being let down by my two good friends in the past make the situation worst. Over endless cups of tea, we talked bout hopes and disappointment... However, I am still being used, backstabbed, and betrayed. I cried lots of time because of them, I was feeling down because of them. But I have get over it now, Please loh, without them, I will have a better life!

I now have a couple of girlfriends that I talk to on a day to day basis, they are superb, and I love them a lot. I promise that I'll always cherish the friendship and warmth I shared with them, and hopefully, I will not be hurt no more.......